Naughty or Nice?
Dating and relationships are constantly evolving. The same holds true for what happens in the bedroom. Topics that were once taboo, are commonly accepted and women continue to thrive on their sexual power. While we have a lot more freedom to express this side of ourselves, there is still a lot of stigma attached to women who enjoy sex a little too much. Men always tend to wonder how a woman gained her experience. They start to assume these women are party girls or have been around the block a few times. I know a lot of women tend to hold back on initiating sex in the beginning of a new relationship because they fear being labelled so. Has it ever occurred to men that women may enjoy sex just as much, if not even more? Women wonder if they should play the naughty or nice card to satisfy their needs. If you are confident in yourself and have a bold personality, go for it and own it. The majority of men love it when a woman is the first to initiate some bedroom bliss. But not all of us are vixens of pleasure, at least not from the start. If you are on the shy side but still want to take control, do not despair. Men need a little direction sometimes but tend to be quick learners. Here are a few tips to get you started:
*Wear lingerie that makes you feel sexy and confident. Whatever assets you got going for you, highlight them. A sexy scent helps too but go light on the perfume. If you need to set the mood, light some candles and play your favourite music. Need more courage? Pour a glass of wine and embrace him with a deep kiss. You don’t have to do much after that.
*Talk dirty. You don’t have to sound like a porn star but if you feel silly and laugh while doing it, it will be anything but sexy. If this is too much of a feat, then whisper in his ear describing what you enjoy that he is doing or what you want him to do next.
*Join him in the shower – When he goes into the shower, give him a few minutes head start. He will be pleasantly surprised to see you naked. Soap him up and let him do the same for you.
*Give him a sexy massage. Get the massage oil or lotion. Start your massage from the nape of his neck and work your way down to his feet. Men are quite sensitive to touch and have several areas that provide them with arousal. Explore his body and see how he responds to your touch
*Wake him up with a shower of kisses – men are always good to go in the early hours of the morning. Men get that kind of message loud and clear.
The basic idea is to excite him with subtle hints of the final reward, without having to ask him for it. Don’t be afraid to take charge, have fun together and make it enjoyable for both of you.
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